I hate you. Ouch. I love you. Thank you. I love you too. I miss you. Aww. I miss you too. I want you. Wait. You want a whole me? Four simple phrases. Three have a similar meaning. One means the opposite. The difference is that our minds are set on remembering words that hurt the most. It isn't just about the … Continue reading The power of words
It's something we don't like - let's be honest. You trust yourself in the process. You believe you know what you're doing. After all, it's going smoothly. Let me burst your bubble: it's not. I could read this post a thousand times and it would look perfect. Someone else would read it and spot a few grammatical … Continue reading Accountability: it’s important
Have you heard that saying? I have. It was when I purchased a PS3 back in 2012. Femi, it came out in 2005, why are you 7 years late? My mum hated games consoles. I convinced her that Netflix was the next best thing after sliced bread. Sold. And I don't pay for Netflix since … Continue reading Don’t hate the player – hate the game
He's 55, posing with his new Tesla car gift from joining one of the most luxurious companies in the world. All 5 of his children have grown up, gone to Oxford and graduated with 1st class certifications. All employed within 3 months of graduation. Student fees covered by him. His wife, co-owner of a massive … Continue reading His success looks sweeter
Men don't like taking responsibility. Why? I just tackle it with a few examples and get into the reasons why.
Walk away. Fix your face. Don't show attitude. It's as simple as that. I should end the blog here, and someone should donate to me at paypal.me/olufemi Don't be that guy that gets rejected and then sumo wrestles a woman on the floor. That is a poor way to express your hurt feelings. Simply accept … Continue reading If a woman says no… this is what you do
Help? I don't think you need it. You need to ask yourself why you're asking for it. What's so bad about your woman earning more than you? You should push her to make more. Think about it. Your partner providing most of the finances shouldn't shift the dynamics of the relationship. She will respect you and … Continue reading Her salary is 3x more than mine. Help!
Well, everything is a lie.
Hear me out first. Trust me, I'm okay at the time of writing this. Seriously, being broke in itself is not a bad thing. It's what you do whilst being broke that matters. Think about it. If you're at home & all you do is play games, watch Netflix, demand money, have sex, eat with no contribution … Continue reading It’s okay to be broke