If a woman says no… this is what you do

Walk away. Fix your face. Don’t show attitude.

It’s as simple as that.

I should end the blog here, and someone should donate to me at paypal.me/olufemi

Don’t be that guy that gets rejected and then sumo wrestles a woman on the floor. That is a poor way to express your hurt feelings. Simply accept the rejection, don’t respond and walk away.

Do you know how much fish there is in the sea to be affected by just one rejection?!

Why do I say that? It shows you’re strong enough to deal with situations outside your control.

The internet has made it easier to reveal things in us more than ever since the introduction of Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Snapchat. Good and bad. But more noticeably I’ve seen the trend of men are trash, #MeToo, men ain’t sh*t, men ain’t this, men ain’t that. And that’s understandable. Women haven’t been treated well by us in some ways unimaginable to men. Actually, long before I was even born it took until the year 1920 for women’s rights in America to be granted.

What’s my point?

I didn’t know it was this bad for women. We really need to fix up. We need to love our female counterparts the same way we do with our male friends. Why must we resort to foolish behaviour when things don’t go our way? Is it due to us being stronger than females?

Inserting fear into women doesn’t make them respect us more.

Let’s learn to listen to women.

Let’s learn to love them for who they are. You know, one day… one of them will be our partner for life.

Our voice will be one of the most important voices of their life. We can either empower her or make her feel worthless.

You choose.

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