Balance is a key part to play in life. I wish I knew it sooner. Here are my thoughts on it.
I used to follow all of them. Why? I liked hearing about the latest gossip. What was going on in the entire football transfer market. Who broke up with who. How has this person bounced back from a breakup. What's going on in the music industry. But you know the thing about all of this? … Continue reading Gossip pages aren’t for me, and I’ll tell you why
*Opens Twitter* Okay, let's see what's trending today... *Trending topic is about the right way of making our cereal... for the 732nd time* Again? It's okay if someone makes cereal differently to you. There's more important things to talk about. By the time I've finished eating my bowl of cereal, you're still complaining? What's wrong … Continue reading Why I don’t argue online
I haven't forgotten about you. My blog was inspired to speak on things we like to avoid. It's been a strange few months in lockdown right? Gyms are now opening up. Football back on our screens. Our favourite restaurants available for takeaway and eat in. But there's a big elephant in the room. You. Yes, … Continue reading Men, how’re you doing?
Short answer: It's not for me. I terminated my accounts. Please note I'm speaking from my experience. Some people found love. Some people found tragedies. As I'm a Christian, I don't use online dating for sex as I'm waiting til marriage so I specifically used Christian dating sites. Cool. So why did it not work … Continue reading I tried online dating. Here are my thoughts.
Why do we undermine our achievements when we're on the right track? We love to play devil's advocate. I explain why in my latest post.
At the time of writing this (23rd April 2020), the world is currently facing a pandemic of a virus that doesn't have a vaccine. This is causing an increase in deaths globally on a daily basis. Governments across the world are encouraging everyone to wash their hands and maintain social distancing. As we're not allowed … Continue reading Productivity vs Reality in a pandemic
With the current pandemic causing people to self-quarantine, people are becoming restless and bored. I provide some tips to keep you busy.
My take on the second month of the social media break. 10 months to go! I'm loving it.
It's been about a month that I haven't been on social media. Here is an update on what's been happening with me so far.
Your face after reading the headline: Sigh. Another one of these cliche sayings. Hold on a sec. Hear me out! Learning to love it will be your best teacher of experience. Not sure? Here's an example: You put in 6-12 hours everyday studying for that exam. Turn down big raves as you know every minute … Continue reading Learn to love failure
Had a beautiful wedding? I'm happy for you. On the other hand, someone probably complained the venue didn't have a waiter serving them food. New car? Fantastic. That's amazing. Someone isn't happy your car is glistening in the sun whilst playing some Ed Sheeran. Graduated with a 2:1? Wonderful. Keep it up. Your parents wanted … Continue reading Everyone complains
I hate you. Ouch. I love you. Thank you. I love you too. I miss you. Aww. I miss you too. I want you. Wait. You want a whole me? Four simple phrases. Three have a similar meaning. One means the opposite. The difference is that our minds are set on remembering words that hurt the most. It isn't just about the … Continue reading The power of words
It's something we don't like - let's be honest. You trust yourself in the process. You believe you know what you're doing. After all, it's going smoothly. Let me burst your bubble: it's not. I could read this post a thousand times and it would look perfect. Someone else would read it and spot a few grammatical … Continue reading Accountability: it’s important
Have you heard that saying? I have. It was when I purchased a PS3 back in 2012. Femi, it came out in 2005, why are you 7 years late? My mum hated games consoles. I convinced her that Netflix was the next best thing after sliced bread. Sold. And I don't pay for Netflix since … Continue reading Don’t hate the player – hate the game
He's 55, posing with his new Tesla car gift from joining one of the most luxurious companies in the world. All 5 of his children have grown up, gone to Oxford and graduated with 1st class certifications. All employed within 3 months of graduation. Student fees covered by him. His wife, co-owner of a massive … Continue reading His success looks sweeter
Men don't like taking responsibility. Why? I just tackle it with a few examples and get into the reasons why.
Walk away. Fix your face. Don't show attitude. It's as simple as that. I should end the blog here, and someone should donate to me at paypal.me/olufemi Don't be that guy that gets rejected and then sumo wrestles a woman on the floor. That is a poor way to express your hurt feelings. Simply accept … Continue reading If a woman says no… this is what you do
Help? I don't think you need it. You need to ask yourself why you're asking for it. What's so bad about your woman earning more than you? You should push her to make more. Think about it. Your partner providing most of the finances shouldn't shift the dynamics of the relationship. She will respect you and … Continue reading Her salary is 3x more than mine. Help!
Well, everything is a lie.